The following report is by Evie Magazine:
Women who save their virginity for marriage are mocked in today’s culture as weird, strange girls who have no social skills and will make boring wives. Premarital sex is not only considered normal, it’s even expected. Every part of society tells us that women should be experimenting sexually before they settle down with their future husband; we see this narrative in TV and movies, on social media, and even in books and magazines. But just a few short decades ago, it was considered normal to either get married as a virgin or only have one premarital sex partner. A collection of data from the National Survey of Family Growth was gathered from 2002, 2006-2010, and 2011-2013, and it reveals that women have racked up more premarital sex partners than ever before in history. We’re made to believe that a woman’s body count doesn’t matter at all, but data shows that it does in fact have an effect on divorce rates.
The Number Of Women Who Had 10+ Sexual Partners Before Marriage Nearly Doubled In The Last 30 Years
In the 1970s, 43% of women had only one premarital sex partner before they walked down the aisle. But the sexual revolution that took place in that decade changed things forever. In the 1990s, 26% of women had one premarital sex partner, and that number dropped to 22% in the 2010s. There’s no data yet for 2020 and beyond, but we can only assume that this number continues to shrink. But the data becomes even more shocking when you look at how many women have had multiple sex partners before marriage.
In the 1970s, only 6% of women had 4-5 premarital sex partners, and only 2% had 10 or more. In the 1990s, 16% of women had 4-5 premarital sex partners, and 10% had 10 or more. Fast forward to the 2010s, and 18% have 4-5 premarital sex partners, and 18% had 10 or more (that’s almost double the amount in the 1990s). The sexual revolution may have begun in the 1970s, but the effects show up significantly in the data at the start of the new millennium. In the 1970s, 21% of brides were virgins. In the 2010s, only 5% were. Again, we can only imagine how much that number has lowered in 2020.
In the 2010s, only 5% of brides were virgins.
When we see popular podcasts like “whatever,” which has 4 million subscribers on YouTube, discuss the significance of body count, there are always combative responses from women who demand to know why it even matters. The data shows that there are plenty of reasons for a man to care about his future wife’s body count. In the 2000s, a woman who is a virgin when she gets married has a 5% chance of getting divorced after five years of marriage. A woman who has two premarital sex partners has a 30% chance of divorce. Women who have between 4-9 premarital sex partners have roughly a 25% chance of divorce, and women with 10 or more premarital sex partners have nearly a 35% chance of divorce. It’s perfectly reasonable for a man to care about how many sexual partners a woman has had when he is looking for a wife, as the statistics show a real connection between premarital sex and the likelihood of divorce.
Of course, data isn’t guaranteed to turn into someone’s fate, but it can be helpful in predicting the future. And you can’t deny that someone who had multiple sexual partners before marriage enters a lifelong relationship with a lot of baggage that can be difficult to carry. There are plenty of other factors that contribute to someone’s likelihood of divorce, such as how often a woman attends church and credit score, but people are much less willing to talk about the effect of premarital sex on marriage than they are someone’s involvement in religion.
Much of the red pill “manosphere” culture online will focus on women’s body counts and even define their entire worth by how many men they’ve slept with. There is a productive way to talk about premarital sex that doesn’t necessarily delve into being cruel toward women who have made certain choices in their past. But it is necessary to be frank about how premarital sex affects not only marriages, but the well-being of women, both physical and mental. Hookup culture benefits men and harms women at the end of the day, and we should discourage women from giving away their bodies to men who don’t value them. At the same time, we should also encourage women to realize that they can change their ways and turn their life around if they genuinely choose to. We are not defined by our past, and we can always use our past mistakes to help educate younger women and prepare them for their own future.
AUTHOR COMMENTARY
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
[1] Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. [4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. [5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. [8] I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. [9] But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 1 Corinthians 6:18; 7:1-5, 8-9
I could be wrong, but it seems to me that these statistics for this post-modern era are a bit conservative. Granted, the latest round of data has not come in yet according to Evie, but from what I have seen from online and know of in-person, girls in high school and college have been ran-through so much, and have mile-high body counts its insane; and now many of those same sluts are desperate for a semi-decent man to give them the time of the day.
And, like this article pointed out, this is a big reason why you are seeing the rise of MGTOW and “red pill” in the West and America, because men wanting to look for a decent wife have given up, and/or have embraced reverse feminism and reject and despise women as a whole.
SEE: The MGTOW Movement Now Considers Their Beliefs To Be In Line With The LGTBQIA+ Community
The Bible is very clear that God HATES fornication. Fornication used to be viewed as a very serious sin; Now you are viewed as being weird for still being a virgin before you graduate middle school! When a nation fully embraces fornication on a grand scale, it’s game over, and the inevitable destruction of that population commences.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4
[7] Who goeth a warfare any time at his own charges? who planteth a vineyard, and eateth not of the fruit thereof? or who feedeth a flock, and eateth not of the milk of the flock? [8] Say I these things as a man? or saith not the law the same also? [9] For it is written in the law of Moses, Thou shalt not muzzle the mouth of the ox that treadeth out the corn. Doth God take care for oxen? [10] Or saith he it altogether for our sakes? For our sakes, no doubt, this is written: that he that ploweth should plow in hope; and that he that thresheth in hope should be partaker of his hope. (1 Corinthians 9:7-10).
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Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 KJV
The two people is joined, how does that work? if we take out the fleshly act?
The spiritual aspect i mean.
Marriage really is a spiritual and physical bond. When my husband of 38 years passed 9 yrs. ago I literally felt like half of me was gone. And it was instant, the moment I knew he was gone. I had no identity. I really didn’t know who I was at that point. It took a long time, months, to heal from that “mortal” wound. And it was a gaping hole in me. It takes a long time for that wound to heal and close up. Eventually you begin to function as a solitary person again, but it’s painful.
When you have sex with anyone you leave a piece of your self behind and you also take a piece of that person with you. Ppl who do this become fragmented, I guess that is a good example. I can’t imagine doing that to myself or someone else. Having experienced it first hand with my spouse. I hope this helps with understanding. I didn’t get this until after I was widowed. That connection is very real. The same with the Lord, we’ll soon know I suppose. Shalom. Be blessed.
Leviticus 19:29 KJV – Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.
Numbers 14:33 KJV – And your children shall wander in the wilderness forty years, and bear your whoredoms, until your carcases be wasted in the wilderness.
Ezekiel 23:35 KJV – Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; Because thou hast forgotten me, and cast me behind thy back, therefore bear thou also thy lewdness and thy whoredoms.